Can you help us? Were a young married couple from New Zealand. Weve been married for 3 weeks inc a 12 day honeymoon which was a disaster. I am 19 and my husband is 21. We were both virgins. We both wanted to keep ourselves. Weve dated for nearly 4 yeasr. On honeymoon we tried to make love three times and each time he came within secons of coming in to me. I tried to be understanding and told him not to worry about it and that it would get better, but after the 3rd time he went very quiet and weve only attempted it again one more time last night which is why Ime writing because it happened again. Several times I tried to touch him in bed to encourage him to try again, but he didnt want to. Last night he actually cried and said he was useless. I tried to comforting him, but there is no consoling him. He nows Ive sent this email. Ive sent it to several sights, but you seem so experienced. What can I do? I can’t ask anyone we know.
Alice and George – April 22nd 2014
Oh dear, what a shame you’ve had this experience. Firstly let me say that it will pass. It is nice to know that you are both asking this question and Peter and I will answer it together for you, too.
You obviously love each other and want to resolve the issue. It’s called premature ejaculation. Continue reading